A house needs a strong foundation before walls and a roof can go up. Children’s learning works the same way. The skills built before age six, such as talking, listening, getting along with others and controlling feelings, hold up everything that comes later.
This article looks at the four building blocks of a strong early foundation and gives simple, everyday ways for parents and teachers to build each one.
For the bigger picture of why the early years matter, see our guide on why early childhood education is important.
Why Foundations Matter
Harvard’s Center on the Developing Child describes how early experiences shape brain architecture. Simple back-and-forth moments, which it calls “serve and return”, strengthen connections in a young child’s brain. Skills that grow from these moments make later learning easier.
Building Block 1: Language and Communication
Language is the base for reading, writing and thinking.
How to build it:
- Talk about what you are doing: “I’m cutting the mango. It’s yellow and soft.”
- Read picture books every day and ask, “What do you think happens next?”
- Sing songs and rhymes. They help children hear the sounds in words.
- Give children time to answer. Do not rush them.
- Use your home language richly. Strong skills in one language help children learn another.
Building Block 2: Social and Emotional Skills
Children who can manage feelings and get along with others find school much easier.
How to build it:
- Name feelings: “You look angry because the tower fell.”
- Teach simple calming steps, like taking deep breaths.
- Play turn-taking games.
- Praise kindness and sharing.
- Keep routines predictable so children feel safe.

Building Block 3: Thinking and Early Maths
Curiosity, problem-solving and number sense start long before school.
How to build it:
- Count everyday things: stairs, spoons, cars.
- Sort toys by colour, size or shape.
- Play with blocks, puzzles, sand and water.
- Ask “why” and “how” questions together.
- Let children try to solve small problems before you help.
Learn how this fits into the way young children learn in our article on the preschool learning process.
Building Block 4: Physical Development and Health
A healthy, active body supports a learning brain.
How to build it:
- Give lots of time to run, climb, jump and dance.
- Practise small-hand skills: drawing, threading beads, using child-safe scissors.
- Offer healthy meals and regular sleep.
- Keep up with health check-ups and vaccines.
The Role of Early Childhood Programmes
Good preschools and childcare centres support all four building blocks through play. Reading Rockets shares NAEYC’s 10 signs of a great preschool class, such as active play, small-group teaching and daily outdoor time.
If you are choosing a setting, use our checklist for choosing an early childhood education centre.

A Global Priority
UNICEF describes early childhood development as a key catalyst for reaching the Sustainable Development Goals. Strong foundations help children, families and whole countries.
A Daily Foundation Checklist
| Building block | Daily activity (10 to 20 minutes) |
|---|---|
| Language | Read a story and talk about it |
| Social-emotional | Play a turn-taking game; name feelings |
| Thinking and maths | Count, sort or build something together |
| Physical | Outdoor play or dancing; drawing |
Frequently Asked Questions
Should my child learn to read before school?
Not necessarily. Strong talking, listening and a love of books matter more than early reading.
Are worksheets good for preschoolers?
A few are fine, but young children learn best through play and hands-on activities.
What if my child seems behind?
Children develop at different speeds. If you are worried, talk to a teacher or health worker. Early support helps.
Key Takeaways
- Early skills are the foundation for all later learning.
- Focus on language, social-emotional skills, thinking and physical health.
- Everyday play, talk and routines build these skills.
- Good early programmes and involved parents work best together.


